"var mı kontrol et, yoksa ekle" yaptırıyorsan MySQL'in farklı kullanımlarından yararlanmanı öneririm:
INSERT INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1);
...1 row(s) affected
INSERT INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1);
...Error Code : 1062
...Duplicate entry '1-1' for key 'PRIMARY'
INSERT IGNORE INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1);
...0 row(s) affected
INSERT INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1) ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE uid=uid
...0 row(s) affected
REPLACE INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1)
...2 row(s) affected
INSERT INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1),(1,2),(1,3),(1,4)
...Error Code : 1062
...Duplicate entry '1-1' for key 'PRIMARY'
INSERT IGNORE INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1),(1,2),(1,3),(1,4)
...3 row(s) affected
INSERT INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1),(1,2),(1,3),(1,4) ON DUPLICATE KEY UPDATE uid=uid
...3 row(s) affected
REPLACE INTO users_partners (uid,pid) VALUES (1,1),(1,2),(1,3),(1,4)
...5 row(s) affected
Detaylar burada:
http://stackoverflow.com/questions/548541/insert-ignore-vs-insert-on-duplicate-key-update